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Dealing With Threats

Threats,
Threats are scary, you see it in movies all the time, you get the death threats, the make your life a living hell threats, and even the physical threats. All three are equally scary but there are other types of threats too and they are just as scary. 
After being assaulted I thought I was done, nothing could be worse and my life would come back to normal. Boy was I wrong! Over the years I’ve received multiple threats not all of them verbal but they were definitely there.
The most recent one was just a couple weeks ago, the guy who assaulted me read my blog and threatened to call the law on me. This scared me, it honestly did, I thought I had finally gotten him out of my life. I went and talked to one of my friends and he helped me see the truth of the situation.
I just want everyone to know that my blog is perfectly legal, because I’m keeping it anonymous and I’m not using anybody’s names. So even if he would have informed the police, there would have been nothing done because I am being perfectly legal.
Now I’m not sharing this story to scare you but tell you if you ever share your story publicly do it legally and keep it anonymous and stay safe!

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